Our family adventure-organic farming in Japan

Monday, June 20, 2005

Second Father's Day Tribute

For Kenji: I'm not very good at saying this to you for some reason, and you will not be too pleased to see me say it on my blog if I know you, but you are a really good Dad and folks should know this! Despite my constant information sharing about parenting, I have alot to learn from you, especially because you put what I read into practice long before I do, so I then learn it back from you! I remember knowing that you would be a great Dad from the moment I met you, mainly because you were such a kid at heart yourself:) You made me laugh and have fun and feel good about myself more than anyone I'd ever met. The joy I see on our boys' faces when you act silly and make them laugh or trick me somehow, reminds me of the immense joy I felt when my dad made us laugh , there's just something super special about sharing a good laugh with your dad and family,( at mom's expense especially!) It connects somewhere deep inside and gives you this sense of wellbeing and security way out of proportion to the importance of the moment itself. Don't let my seriousness about life drown out your love of fun and laughter, it's probably more important than all the heavy stuff I read or worry about and we all need it-laughter is the best medicine, right! We love you and I'm proud of the loving, responsible, caring, hardworking, and unselfish Dad and husband that you are, not to speak of fun-I know that the desire of your heart is to be the best Dad you can be for your kids and you're doing a great job. I couldn't ask for a better partner in parenting these three boys God has given us. I love you.


To the world at large--if you're a dad or will someday be one, you're a very important person!!! Don't underestimate your power and influence, you are shaping the world as you hug.... and discipline your kids, and simply live your life in front of them. Make it a good life, by God's standards that is, your kids are watching....step up to the plate and let God do the rest. Hey and to all of us women out here, most definitely me included, these dads need to know that their job is important, we don't have the corner on parental duties and wisdom, our kids are watching for our approval of their dad and they will take their cues from us. I am praying for us all.......God Bless

More of Kenj

Walk in the woods around the farm, in front of a tree felled by a typhoon

exploring an old house in the woods, very interesting, the highlight of our walk

Bananas for Dad!Oooooh, that is cheeeesy!

Cooking Sansai

Sage shares his dad and Jiji's passion for Sansai, here poring over the book of them wondering what will be out next. He was so animated looking at them, it was so comical!

Pics of Kenji

Pics of Kenji

Fishing with Gary for Spoonbill, now that's a big fish!

Happy Father's Day!

Just talked to Dad and wanted to,in front of my whole reading audience(hee, hee), thank God for blessing us with such a wise and wonderful Dad and Grandpa. Dad is genuine with a capital G, in his love for others and his relationship to God. It is in a big way through he and Mom's willingness to let God transform their lives, that I could see God's power in a real way-something that affects my life's every moment. Some good memories from growing up: Dad-always loving and cheerful no matter how tired he is or how long of a day he's had- he never pushed us away or made us feel that we were annoying to him, so if his sermons were a little sketchy for awhile, maybe you'll understand....just kidding Dad!, more likely he just got very little sleep! He made us laugh, usually at disgusting things that mortified MOther...ELWIN! He tickled us silly...and (it must be in the genes-as my boys seem to have inherited it), had to have his name called into infinity and finally whacked a few times when he was reading to get his attention! And to his exasperation over our lack of discipline with oil etc, kept our cars running......until we mashed them to bits or blew them up or something, and then he just found us another clunker, oops did I just say that...! Oh, and must not forget his detailed explanations(groan, patient sigh, oh, why did I ask? but thanks dad I'm sure I can recall some of how an engine works??....) and stories ...a trait well passed on both to this generation thru me to my oldest son- you are spending lots of time reading this blog, right?! Just wait until Sage can type!! I"ll never forget a long conversation I had with Dad(I can remember where I was pacing:) in our apartment and the events around the conversation)when I was living in Pittsburgh with friends after college, and struggling with my identity, I said I hated the hypocrisy of Christians-but I think it was actually mostly my own self-righteousness. I remember saying I had no desire to go to church because of this hypocrisy, and then his reply that Christians are not perfect people -he never pushed me that I needed to go to church or seemed frantic or disappointed that I was going the wrong direction, instead he directed me to the Bible and said, just read it, don't worry about all the other stuff. He didn't make me feel stupid or awful or so wrong to be questioning what I should have known, his answer made me face up to my real reasons for not going to church, and not wanting to be around other Christians, had he scolded me or ranted at me I would have had just the reason I wanted to hide behind and say I told you so. That gentle and wise response just may be one of the pivotal influences in my desire to know God in a real way.
I have no clue how Dad juggles all the balls in his court so graciously----well,actually I do, an organized wife and a big God would have to get the credit I'd say. And I can't count the number of people who love and appreciate and have had their lives touched by him(although I've hated to share at times, I am more than proud and thankful)-count me in as one of his biggest admirers----I love you Dad and miss you lots, especially as I think of your balanced wisdom and always having an answer to my deep questions, although sometimes it might be I don't know or maybe that the answer isn't so important for us to know-- you've (and mom, and mom, and mom!)listened to my many immature passionate discourses throughout the years with great patience and great restraint I'm sure... and then your willingness to express your love to Kenji, I and our boys who all love you dearly. I can feel your love through the phone,even though I can't feel your great hello and goodbye hug and kiss or see your teary eyes when you say I love you. I could have no greater joy than to have my boys spend time with you and know you, you are a wonderful example of who I would love for them to become one day. We truly love you too and please know that you(and Mom) are a powerful testimony to anyone who knows you, to God's power to use those who present their lives to Him as a whole, not just a segmented "spiritual" Sunday life, but the whole thing- a work in progress and always open to learn from whatever is presented. Thanks Dad for working so hard and loving what you do and for desiring to live out the truth no matter how difficult. I love you.

Sunday, June 19, 2005

Pictures of Dad





with mom and littlest sis Vanessa

Love you Grandpa

Friday, June 17, 2005

Sage and school

Okay, I know quite a few of you have asked about Sage and school, so here's the scoop! The pictures are pretty randomly placed, didn't feel like taking the time to organize them, and I have some great snaps of he and his friends that I need to get scanned and put on too, but here's plenty to get you started! He is doing really great. Tonight he told me that instead of knowing just a few Japanese words, there are just a few he doesn't know......hee, hee! anyhow, he says he understands most of what people are talking about and in the last few days we are noticing him speaking more Japanese. Mostly kid phrases, like I see you, who's is this?, what's this?, etc...He has made friends, and talks specifically of two boys and two girls the most. He is really anxious to have them over, but we need to meet their parents first I think. I have been very impressed with the school so far. I especially like the communication notebook that he takes to school each morning and brings home each eve, we or the teacher can write any concerns or questions there. Sage thought we should tell about him eating snake there in case his friends didn't understand... or believe him!! We didn't however:). Once we got a note in there that Sage was getting more comfortable in school, maybe too comfortable and was squirming alot, and not paying attention and teasing other kids to distraction(trying to get their attention I'm sure), well basically being Sage....we had a nice talk and we haven't heard anything since, I think he is understanding more now, so the classes aren't as boring, I truly felt for him having sat thru many Japanese sermons.......

My other favorite is that the school doesn't have a janitor, (actually this is the way it is here), the kids clean the school and what they don't do, the principal and teachers do. I asked Sage the other day what they have to do and he said scrub the toilets, and the floors in the bathroom, sweep the floors, dust, etc. He gave me a detailed description of how they have to scrub the toilets. I asked him what he thought about the cleaning, and he said, "it's fun!!" I think he enjoys doing it with all the other kids, he did say he is the only one who actually makes a pile when they sweep though, HA! He has taken over toilet scrubbing at home now after assessing our brush and making sure it was up to par, you can just see him now can't you???

Sage was very impressed at his principal, he says every day he goes around and picks up all the trash in the classrooms, checks the track for weeds and pulls them and makes sure all the students are doing okay. He said, he must really like his job and wants to make sure nothing gets messed up, he's really good.

The events they have had so far are a class picnic when they hiked to a nearby park, played and ate lunch together, the snaps I talked about were taken by teachers that day and are really great. He had a blast. Then the cross country run that you see pics of and the Undoukai or Sports Festival that was last Saturday. The other sports pics are of that day. This is a Japanese school tradition, very big family day, everyone goes and there are games for the whole family to participate in after the students do their competitions and everyone brings a picnic lunch. The students practice for several weeks and Sage was in heaven, he absolutely loved it. They did games like tug of war, different fun relay races, etc. Sage's team came in last, but I don't think he noticed! It rained that day unfortunately so it was a little cold for him after he got wet.

Sage loves the playground and spends every moment he can there, Mon and Fri. the school day is 8:30-1:30, an hour shorter than the rest of the week, but the school bus comes at the same time. On nice days he likes to stay and play with his friends on the playground until the bus comes, on rainy days we try to pick him up. Most of the farm kids around here go to an afterschool program until 5 or so....so their parents can get more work done....wow....

They have hot lunch served to them in their classroom. It is very strictly and scientifically nutrionally balanced and calorie counted and everything. It is usually a traditional type Japanese meal with several different food, always soup and rice and usually a salad and several entrees, sometimes dessert. It's been a great way for Sage to get used to and get to try many types of food here. He usually eats most of everything and gets seconds of soup and rice often. They have to take their own utensils and bring them home to get washed every night. He has a little fork and spoon, that looks like a baby set, this is what they use though, and a little set of chopsticks, luckily he was already used to using them before he went and now is quite a pro. Kai is getting quite good at them too.

Recently Sage's class has been tending the plants they planted, something Sage loves to do. He usually comes back from his walk from the schoolbus with many varieties of plants or something interesting. Today it was a weed flower plant that smells"sweeter than honey, mom" which he pulled up by it's roots("I didn't break even one mom") and planted smack dab in the front of our greenhouse plants and carefully watered. It's like a dandelion he said, but different. His passion here has been Sansai, edible wild plants. Kenji's family has always gone to pick them in their seasons so Kenji and his dad got Sage interested. You can imagine he would love it, things he can find outside that we can actually eat! Jiji brought a book about them and he pores over it, finding what he can, begging for us to go in the woods and look for the ones he can't, and we have to cook and try them. He eats them because it's cool, right, not necessarily because they taste good! Their names were some of the first Japanese words he remembered. If you come to visit he will show them all to you and make you eat them too:)

Okay, back to school, luckily there isn't much homework at this age, just a page of writing numbers or characters now and then, Sage is good about it, and his numbers have greatly improved. I was a little worried at first at his sloppiness, but they are looking much better and he's starting to get the characters too. They are learning the first set of Japanese characters called hiragana right now, there are 50 of them. I know this one to read them anyway, but don't remember how to write them all. I need to practice with him. He finds the math boring, because I tried to get him ahead on it before we left so he wouldn't have to struggle with one thing at least and wouldn't get behind. One day he tried to tell the teacher he didn't need to do the dot to dot number sheet he gave him because he'd been doing them for years...the teacher didn't think much of that and told Sage he had to do it anyway. He's got the rules down now I think. The class periods aren't too long, each hour the kids have 10 or more min. to go to the bathroom and get up and move around and stuff, and the subjects rotate enuf to keep him from getting too bored.

In music class they are learning to play something called a kenban harmonica, it's kind of the same idea as an accordian, but you blow thru a long tube instead and play the keys in front of you. He can't bring it home so I don't know how he's doing, but he says fine. He told me at first that the music teacher was mean, you couldn't even move an inch or I mean a centimeter, he says or you would have to sit out the next song...I said how did you know that's what happened, he said because I had to, that's how I knew! But after that he hasn't, so I laughed and said, wow, wish I had a picture of you sitting that still!! Luckily we had just read a funny book about a teacher who had an unruly class and unbeknownst to her students dressed up like a mean teacher and was the sub with the iron hand for awhile until her students wanted her back even if they had to behave....anyhow we applied the story to this and Sage quickly made the connection and we had a good laugh about the teacher with the black dress. And he understood why sometimes teachers have to be strict it seems.

some days Sage would rather stay home of course, he thinks he could play all day and he barely drops his backpack at the door and changes in a flash to get outside again when he gets home, but I think school is a good experience and we've had alot of chances to talk about character issues and relational, life issues too. He's had some trouble now and then with some older kids picking on him, he is cute and little and different and they don't listen when he says stop.. but he has dealt very well with it, and we are praying and helping him to learn some avenues to deal with it when it happens. Sage is very happy these days, he is doing so many things he loves, spending lots of time with people, playing outside nonstop when he is home and lots at school too, and getting to see and learn about lots of new things. He goes to sleep in a flash, and is hard to get up, but it is so nice to see his happy countenance and his heart seems to be soft as well.

Thursday, June 16, 2005

Sage and one of his friends at his cross country day, Kai, Sage's grandpa here and I went to cheer him on that morning

Repost of Sage's school

You are required to label EVERYTHING that goes to school, and I mean everything, every millionth piece of his math manipulatives set, no joke! So here is Kenji's mom and dad helping us out, and our brother-in-law was an angel and had a program to make stickers otherwise we'd still be doing it!

Here are the stickers that we put on the little bitty math manipulative pieces

Sage dressed up for the first day of school ceremony, big deal here!

All of us outside the school that day

Sage's teacher(he is called Oodori sensei by the kids) and class walking into the gym for the ceremony

Sitting in front of everyone for the long, long, and boring ceremony, Sage did great, the fish out of water feeling kept him very well behaved that day:) He is third from left

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Doing the Dekapantsu(big pants) relay race

the famous "No More Cry" dance

Tug of War of course

Picnic time with Ray, Akiko and kids-Kazu, Yohe(yoyo), and Ken-Ken and their grandma Toshiko(Nai-Nai) and A-Tan(a volunteer at the farm)who is good with all the kids

Sage showing us how he climbs the trees at school

Doing a family team game, Ray won the game for their team!

Kai racing in the little kids race for a big bag of treats, made his bored day!

Sage's Japanese writing, he told his teacher about his newest experience, eating snake, no pics sorry! Toshi and Kenji caught a snake and cleaned and we all ate it, Sage really wanted to tell everyone at school about it. When they had an exercise to tell about something that happened outside of school this is what he told. He can't remember if he told the teacher in Japanese or English, but somehow the teacher got the story right and let Sage copy it. The other side is a picture of us all getting ready to eat the snake, sorry I didn't take a picture of that side..oops.

The stuff in Sage's backpack, they have to keep all their books at home and bring only the ones listed on the schedule for the day. Then a bullet train pencil case, a hard plastic sheet that goes between workbook pages to write on, and some of his text and workbooks. His subjects are, math(sansui), Japanese(kokugo), music(ongaku), writing(shyoshya), crafts(can't remember), seikatsu(everyday life), a morals class, and gym. Plus a "family" class a couple times a week with kids of all ages that are in his immediate living area. They cycle thru the week with the most in math and Japanese.

Japanese textbook

math textbook

Sage walking to the schoolbus

Getting on the schoolbus, and no, the buses are not yellow here! and not all the same. The backpack on the boy getting on the bus is the typical first grader backpack. All the other kids have one, Sage at times wishes he did too, but we had just bought him one for Christmas...

Cross country run, getting ready to take off, sorry, Sage is behind the back teacher's arm

After the hard run(half mile plus some), Sage thought he couldn't do it, and said, mom, my side hurts, I can't, but when we cheered him on as he would go by us, he sped up for a bit at least. He was dreading the day, but by that night, couldn't wait for the next cross country run in the fall. The glory of completion, maybe last but not least!

Sage getting ready to run for his 50m dash.

Menno village thoughts

Hey I've been meaning to share a little bit about general Menno Village stuff so here are some thoughts from a conversation we had with Ray and Akiko(the farmer couple who basically run the farm), not long after we arrived.

Menno Village is a CSA(community supported agriculture). An organic veggie farm, but also a community. They are a business, not a nonprofit org.(a surprise to us actually! we are employees, not volunteers).

Having said that- the focus is not on making money, but on
Education
Communication-to share the vision
Hospitality-connecting people with people and the earth
Through relationships, hoping to be a living example of a different way of life, the Kingdom of God.
Menno Village has many volunteers who come and do a variety of things based on their strengths. (I'll introduce people one of these days soon I hope.)

Ray mentioned that Menno Village gives it's members a chance to share in an alternative lifestyle, in my words-food grown for people not money, close relationships between the grower and the consumer, and a greater awareness of the earth itself.... and hopefully some of what our fast paced cultures are missing out on these days, community and connections with nature and the food we eat.

Ray and Akiko have been very active politically, especially about GE issues(genetically engineered seeds). Ray does little seminars and talks with various groups to inform people of the issues and to warn of the inevitable negative impacts on Japanese Agriculture and life in general. Recently a Christian TV journalist did an hour long documentary on Sapporo TV comparing this farm and Ray with a conventional farm and farmer, showing the impact on agriculture and culture in general. It showed pretty clearly the way that the big farm mentality has torn apart community, she did a pretty amazing job.

Some info from a seminar Ray did recently-Dominant thinking: Land is private property, seeds are software or private property, commodity production and food is "sold" . As opposed to Land is a place of belonging, Seeds are a source of security and a means of community building through sharing, Growing food to feed people, Food is a "gift" .

Maybe I could say that the vision for Menno Village is to invite others to participate in a new way of living and thinking, invite questions and discussions- being a living example of an alternative to the predominant system.

Reality is that community living is challenging, organic farming is AS challenging and swimming against the flow is exhausting at times, from what I've observed so far, and yet there have been signs all along the way that people's lives are being touched and their thinking challenged.

There is so much more I could say, but I'm slow, and got to get some sleep.....please ask questions, would love to have discussions with any of you who are wondering what I'm talking about here, maybe I'll figure it out even more for myself to that way!

Wednesday, June 15, 2005

Pictures of spring, now finally fading to summer

Tuesday, June 07, 2005

how to see all the pics!

Okay, I really am supposed to tell everyone to look at the archives to see all the pics I've posted, the button on our keyboard doesn't work to post them all on one post unfortunately, so for now, just look at the month's archives and they'll all come up. I heard quite a few people haven't seen alot of the pics. I'll post more later I hope this last bunch of pics was from quite awhile ago, but still wanted to post them

Monday, June 06, 2005

Reading to Kai to wake him up

Talking to Grandma

Kabochan, always cooking delicious food, always in the kitchen!

Orie and Ray watering plants

Eating dinner with Toshi

I will not be left out, where did that screw go??

Jiji working on our house when we first moved here, the boys were huge helpers, well at least they were sure of it!

Toshi at our house

playing baseball

Kenji doing something with the tractor, potato planter attachment

play, play, play, mud, water, dirt, what can I say!

early spring